SOMETHINGS YOU SHOULD KNOW ABOUT ME....some fun stuff, some serious stuff and some just like that...!!!

1. your intelligence is my common sense.....so don't tell me what you know and what you don't, because you can't even imagine what my brain, mind and wit is capable of.... BEWARE... ;-)

2. i have got enemies and people who talk shit about me....GREAT, that means i actually stood up for something that i believed in..and i'll keep on doing so always...!! i don't mind...i'll rather be unpopular for what i am and for what i believe in....than being popular for what i am not and i won't ever do a thing that i don't believe in..!!

3. i admire gay men....because they leave more women for me,... hahahha ;-)

4. I AM A NON-SMOKER AND I DON'T TAKE ALCOHOL [booze] IN ANY FORM....and i hate it when people smoke around me....
but, i agree that women feel safe with men who smoke and drink....and obviously they would, because even women know that smoking causes impotency.... HAHAHAHA ;-)

5. i would never ever tell or advice someone to do a thing that i don't do myself...!! just the same way....who are you to judge me??? i am not perfect, and i don't claim to be....but, before you start pointing fingers at me....make sure your hands are clean...!!!

6. for me, life is not about waiting for the storm to pass.... rather life is about dancing in the ran ;-)

7. i believe that some people are alive just because it is illegal to kill them...and i don't want to be in jail..!!! ;-)

8. i want nothing to change ever.... but now i realize gracefully that people sometimes do change and feelings fade...!! so, just take life as it comes because YOU CAN'T GO BACK TO THE FADED PHOTOGRAPHS, BECAUSE SOMETHINGS WERE NEVER MEANT TO LAST.....!! so, believe in god and never lament, because god is the only one in supreme power to make the best plans for everyone...!!!

9. i don't believe that homosexuality should be allowed or practised by anyone...!! because if god wanted homosexuality to be normal and prevalent on earth...he would have made "adam and tom" instead of "adam and eve"....!!! so Cmo'n guys and girls...be normal just the way god wanted us to be ;-)

10. I love and simply adore my family and FFFs [fully faaltu friends] who have stood by me in my most difficult times and my hour of need....!!! they have made me realise that 1 true friend is better than a thosuand relatives and acquaintances...!!!

11. i am sarcastic and have a smartass attitude..... this is a ntural defense against drama, deceit, bullshit and stupidity....and i don't give a f*ck if anyone with mentioned traits feels offended...!!!

12. according to me, women are like LIQUID OXYGEN..... the oxygen wouldn't let you die and would be your life support....and the liquid won't let you breathe and live ...!! ;-)
but, take it or leave it, its a fact that we men won't be able o survive without women...!! so try to enjoy the flowery bed with all the little thorns ;-)

13. i never part with my dreams and fight to keep them alive till the end, because i think if they are given up upon so easily, you may still exist, but you cease to leave....!!!
my funda is---
LIVE WITH NO REGRETS AND GIVE IT YOUR BEST... जियो तो ऐसे जियो की कोई काश ना रह जाए

14. I NEVER EVER GO TO BED ANGRY.....I STAY UP AND PLOT MY REVENGE... ;-)
i neither forget, nor i ever forgive...!!! i never forget my past, but i don't keep sticking to it also...!!

15. i live in that solitude which is painful in the youth, but is delicious and soothing in the years of maturity.....

16. i love to admire and listen to people's opinion just as i would admire their dog---- i shouldn't be expected to tak it along with me... ;-)

17. I AM A LOVER, NOT A FIGHTER...... BUT I'LL FIGHT TILL THE END FOR WHAT I LOVE AND DREAM.....

ciao.....peace.... see you all soon \^^/

I WILL SURVIVE....

जियो तो ऐसे जियो..., के ज़िन्दगी में कोई "काश" ना रह जाए.....

I’m down on my knees but not to pray,
Just to cover my face and waste another day.
Reminiscing how I had failed before I even try,
Never make a perfect landing because too scared to even fly.

Living in a memory only get me nowhere,
Keep whining, ” I’d rather be anywhere but here”.
I’m not living just for the moment,
But I’ll try to make each of them count..
I’m here to present all that I got.

Cause now I’ve realized,
Mistakes are necessary,
the secret behind every success story.

Every blunders happened,
to be overcome and beaten.
Luck doesn’t come so obvious,
And every failure is precious.

I BELIEVE.....

I believe that the sun shines after the rain
I believe if you don't get hurt you'll never gain
I believe in not doing things the easy way
I believe that being selfish doesn’t pay

I believe in a second chance
I believe in a life long romance
I believe there is life after death
And standing up to a life of mess

I believe in love at first sight
I believe that revenge isn’t right
I believe that first impressions last
And there is nothing better then a good laugh

I believe that dreams do come true
I believe there's destiny for me and you
I believe that good things come to those who wait
I believe love never arrives too late

I believe something good comes from something bad
I believe that for tears of happiness there are tears of sad
I believe everyone has a guardian angel
And the good you do will be rewarded well

I believe sometimes there is no explanation
I believe money can't buy people's affection
I believe you don't know what you've got until it's gone
I believe a new day arrives with every dawn

I believe a smile can be contagious
I believe in being very outrageous
I believe in living with no regrets
I believe that life is as good as it gets

I believe that God watches over us
I believe the little things are worth the fuss
I believe you have each friend for a reason
I believe you will get punished for treason

I believe that what comes first is family
I believe we should all live in harmony
I believe in making the most of a beautiful day
And it's not the end until everything's okay

I believe absence makes the heart grow fonder
I believe you will lose if you sit and wonder
I believe every experience teaches you a lesson
And nothing cures better then a drinking session

I believe everyone has one true love
I believe sometimes we need a little shove
I believe the whole world is a stage
I believe we only get better with age

I believe that to learn you have to live
I believe that to love someone you have to give
I believe one moment can change your life
And there's still help when you’re in strife

I believe everyone has one true friend
I believe love helps a broken heart mend
I believe in the power of a song
And things will change before too long

I believe living is the best experience
I believe in not laughing at other people’s expense
I believe it’s hard to watch a lover leave
And when they’re gone all you can do is breath

I believe to always look on the bright side
I believe that life is just one big ride
I believe when I die people will grieve
But it’s ok because I believe

YOU THINK YOU KNOW ME?? ;-) well check this out first..

...im a die hard romantic...and i love to dream, think and i prefer to be alone to write and jot down my thoughts..!!

i am least bothered about flattery and flirting...... so gals who wanna do fraaannnddship with me just please back off..!! i don't wanna be rude to woman so DON'T BOTHER...

i CAN'T take criticism…well i'm really short tempered!!!. ...
..im fussy abt almost everythin
and i like bein rude to people.... hahahha

i love being an INDIAN and hate people who say 1 religion/faith is better than other.!! .. please all such communal suckers can go and FU@# themselves... please don't bother us, we have better things to do...!!
i lurrrrrvv throwin attitude for no reason whatsoever..!!

i hate parties and crowds becoz i find it crowded by fake suckers who can be so nice to u even when they are bitching about u at ur back and from the inside...

im not hot lukin or sexy or a material that girls drool over...!!!
am juzz a normal guy next door and i just can't pretend to be something i am not...!!
SO TAKE ME AS I AM... OR JUZZ LEAVE ME ALONE..!!

..i cant stand the nasal king of our country mr. Himesh Reshammyia......i hate jazzy-b's or watever they'r called of punjabi singing who can't think of punjab being more than daaru. chicks and bandooks... n im ready to kick u in da wrong place if u play any of his songs wen u r around me.

..i dont like people who claim to be the best..
...i hate nerds,geeks,perverts, FLIRTS and people who take commitment, honesty and relationships for granted..!! if u are 1 then plzz back off or u can really get hurt... thanx :)

..i don’t like earthworms and lizards... hehehe
…I hate people with oil in their hair( especially wen they r standin right under my nose)
I hate wannabes…I don’t like the saduu and khadoos people!!!....…

im very self centered.....im very fluent in sarcasm...

i cant imagine a life without my FFF’s…dat stands for (faltoooo friends forever)…namely punnu, sid, saleem, kunal, vicku, yadu, daman, yogi, blessu, chandu... harry, suggu, rasna, kim, poonam, shweta, nidhi, sweeky, ruchi, amrit, simi,.... ummm bass :)

I love travelling alone on long looonnngg drives…
im a dreamer…
I love reading…

I love to flaunt…
but, I hate to fake!!..

..i luvvvv havin sweet lime soda
...i hate eatin pizza and masala dosa using a fork n knife...
i hate to know that "" life can be such a bitch at times=
i loveeee long words dat make no sense eg, preposterously!!

..i lov melodrama
...i hate blackmail...
..i hate guys who start singin as soon as a chick passes them by..

..i hate to be silent
..i luvvv my life (bein over optimistic helps!!)

these r da primary detailzz rest is 4 u to figure out..so ciao.peace… \,,/

THE MOVIE THAT HAS AFFECTED ME THE MOST...!! and why..???

The world ain't all sunshine and rainbows. It's a very mean and nasty place. and I don´t care how tough you are, it will beat you to your knees and keep you there permanently, if you let it. You, me or nobody, is gonna hit as hard as life. But ain't about how hard you hit. It's about how hard you can get hit, and keep moving forward. how much you can take, and keep moving forward. That´s how winning is done. Now, if you know what you worth, go out and get what you worth. But you gotta be willing to take the hits. And not pointing fingers saying: You ain´t what you wanna be because of him or her or anybody. Cowards do that and that ain´t you! You´re better than that!"

well this is 1 dialogue that has inspired me the most... ever in my life..!! i have been a big-big "ROCKY BALBOA" FAN all through..!! it was around 10 years back when i first saw a rocky movie..!! and since then i have watched all the 6 parts atleast 20-25 times each...!! and everytime i have seen this movie it has inspired me no-end..!! i have not just watched it because i like and admire boxing as a sport.... its because it has always made me learn some important new lessons about life...!!

1. it has made me realize the fact that no matter what your dreams are....if u keep chasing them, then one day you will be at the place where you belong and where you have wanted to see yourself all through your life..!!

2. it has made me realize the power of the WILL TO SURVIVE..!! and this realization has seen me through most of the difficult situations of my life...wheather it was coping up and conquering depression...or if it was coming out of personal debacles...or even when i was down professionally... it made me realize NEVER EVER TO SAY "DIE" and now this attitude has just seeped into my soul and i don't know any other way to live..!!

3. the biggest gift that i think that this inspirational movie has given me is that it has made me realise that OUR CHOICES, AND NOT CHANCES...DETERMINE OUR DESTINY..!!
it has made me strong enough to take the blame for my mistakes or for my wrong choices..!! it has made me sane and wise enough now..not to blame my misfortunes or difficult situations that i have faced, on circumstances or on other people..!! i faced those tough times because i made some wrong choices, because i made some wrong decisions and because i let those situations affect me and my psyche..!! "but....it's not gonna happen anymore"--- this is what i decided 3 years back....and since then.... there has been no looking back..!!

4. it made me realize the fact that---
*a man should be strong enough to accept his mistakes, intelligent enough to learn from them, and wise enough to benefit from them..!!!!
*be more concerned about your character than reputation....character is what u really are, and reputation is merely what others think of you..!!!

and this is what has made me out to be a better human being every new moment....to keep moving forward even when the odds are stacked high against me.....to gracefully take the blames for my mistakes and learn from them so that i strive to be a stronger, better and humane human-being with every passing day..!!

it has made me strong enough to be MYSELF.... to choose my own ways depending upon what's morally and practically right.... and not just following a road because that's the way the whole world is going without paying a single thought to the destination...!!

that's why now i proudly say about me---
۩۞۩ THERE'S THE HIGHWAY, AND THEN,, THERE'S ----- "MY WAY" ۩۞۩

THE PISCEAN MALE...!!

Male Pisces usually have a stocky build, and are rarely tall. Although sometimes clumsy in appearance, the Pisces has a flowing and graceful way of moving. His eyes are heavy lidded and have a sleepy appearance. Often striking due to shape or color, the eyes are usually the most prominent facial feature. Pisces men are often fair haired, although not exclusively. The hair texture is silky, fine and usually wavy. The Piscean's youthful attitude is also reflected in his physical appearance. Pisces men often look younger than their years due to a jovial and optimistic attitude about life. Smiling keeps wrinkles at bay and augments natural good health.

Pisces men are mysterious, and often difficult to understand. But if you have one in your life, you are lucky. His idealism and altruism will give you an angle on the world you might not have seen otherwise. Pisces' joy of life is contagious, and with love and support these men can be steered away from the all consuming sadness that they can experience. They are worth the time and patience it takes to nurture a meaningful relationship with them.

The PISCEAN MALE has to bury his old, unrealizable dreams if he wants to move ahead in life. All this doesn't mean that he is weak or feeble. It's just that he lives in his dreams too much and has to will himself to get up and indulge in real action. When he manages to brush off the starry dust from his eyes, he sees the real world and then, goes about doing the business of earning his bread. A Piscean male has a very clever and sharp mind. The moment he starts working towards practical aims, you can be sure that he will win the next 'Achievers Award'.

The only problem comes in making him look beyond those unrealistic dreams. If your fish knows how to swim against the current, you can be sure that you are luckiest girl on this earth. After we have dealt with the practical aspect of the relationship, lets come to the emotional one. This is something you will never have to worry about, with a Pisces guy. A Piscean man will never ever be short on emotions and romance. Infact, he practically breathes them. If the practical aspect of his characteristics profile is fine, you can be sure you have been rewarded with the best guy in the world.

He never holds a bias against any person. You will never find him passing a judgment in context of anyone, unless and until he has experienced the same situation in which that person is now. Even then, he will try to understand that person's reasons, rather than criticize him. Accusations don't go down well with him either. A Pisces man is never ever mean. However, at times, he may say something, which turns out to be quite different from what he intended. He is totally dependable and you can trust him with your darkest secrets.

The charming and relaxed manner of the Piscean man makes him attractive to many people. He is non-judgmental, curious and easy to talk to. Because he is such a great listener, people will often look to him as a shoulder to lean on. The Pisces male can often feel overwhelmed by the problems of others because he is so sensitive; it is his natural instinct to help.

When Pisces is feeling overwhelmed, he will seek solitude. Being alone and away from the worlds' ills allows him time to recuperate, sort his thoughts and be creative. If he is not allowed time and space to be alone, the Pisces man can become paranoid. Sometimes he will not be forthcoming about where he has gone to be alone. Allow him to spend time away, and he will come back quickly. If you chase him, he is likely to stay hidden or leave altogether.

He is a very good listener and people always come to him to discuss all their major and minor problems. When he is with you, try not to burden him more with your tensions too. Throughout the day, he has been listening to other people's troubles and the way he is, he would have absorbed all those negative energies. Now, when he is with you, he needs to get all of this out of his system and rejuvenate himself. Piscean men have such an empathetic disposition that they need to rest every now and then, to bring back the calmness and steadiness.

If they want to be left alone, they should not be disturbed. Closeness and togetherness is good, but let them have their moments of solitude. Give them the space they desire and the heart will only grow fonder. A Pisces man is very sensitive and can get hurt very easily. He appears to be confident of himself, but on the inside, he is painfully shy. He needs to know that you appreciate him, care for him and love him. He has a very quick temper, but the anger subsides as quickly as it comes.

He will never remain angry for a very long time and will seldom hold a grudge. He has the ability to see right through people's outer layer and that makes it very difficult to fool him. On the other hand, he can fool you if he wants and such situations will arise frequently, since he likes to keep his own affairs to himself. A Piscean man may speak a small lie once in a while. This is because he has some secret fear of revealing all about himself. However, you don't need to worry, as these lies will always be completely harmless and help keep his imagination running.

Jealously is not one of the personality traits of a Pisces male. He trusts you totally, but remember he is also a man and will definitely expect loyalty from you. As far as he is concerned, you will get plenty of reasons to be jealous, as he will have close friends of both the sexes. He will also appreciate beauty, but he will never be disloyal. That's just not him. If you can cope up with this, you will be rewarded with the most romantic husband, with whom you talk about almost everything under the sun.

Pisces are very interested in mysticism and the spiritual unknown. Their spiritual life allows them to create the type of world they wish for, rather than the mundane world in which they must exist.

A Piscean guy is never too cautious about money and you will have to handle that front. Infact, you need to present yourself as the perfect example of a saver and he will, sooner or later, follow suit. He learns quickly from the people he admires and respect, so what better person than you to teach him economy. With children, he will be a lot of fun and extremely loving. He will listen patiently to their childish problems, provide them with solutions, keep their imagination oiled and minds active. However, teaching them discipline will be your responsibility.

Remember that a Pisces man is very fond of his dreams. Never ever step on them or laugh at them - he will be hurt. Infact, believe in them and one day, you may be walking on the red carpet besides him. Trust him, give him love and keep him emotionally nourished. In return, he will shower you with lots of love and affection and provide you with a happy and rich home. Don't nag or criticize him and always support him in realizing his hopes. Nurture his imagination and one day, you will find yourself blessed with some incredibly good luck!