SOMETHINGS YOU SHOULD KNOW ABOUT ME....some fun stuff, some serious stuff and some just like that...!!!

1. your intelligence is my common sense.....so don't tell me what you know and what you don't, because you can't even imagine what my brain, mind and wit is capable of.... BEWARE... ;-)

2. i have got enemies and people who talk shit about me....GREAT, that means i actually stood up for something that i believed in..and i'll keep on doing so always...!! i don't mind...i'll rather be unpopular for what i am and for what i believe in....than being popular for what i am not and i won't ever do a thing that i don't believe in..!!

3. i admire gay men....because they leave more women for me,... hahahha ;-)

4. I AM A NON-SMOKER AND I DON'T TAKE ALCOHOL [booze] IN ANY FORM....and i hate it when people smoke around me....
but, i agree that women feel safe with men who smoke and drink....and obviously they would, because even women know that smoking causes impotency.... HAHAHAHA ;-)

5. i would never ever tell or advice someone to do a thing that i don't do myself...!! just the same way....who are you to judge me??? i am not perfect, and i don't claim to be....but, before you start pointing fingers at me....make sure your hands are clean...!!!

6. for me, life is not about waiting for the storm to pass.... rather life is about dancing in the ran ;-)

7. i believe that some people are alive just because it is illegal to kill them...and i don't want to be in jail..!!! ;-)

8. i want nothing to change ever.... but now i realize gracefully that people sometimes do change and feelings fade...!! so, just take life as it comes because YOU CAN'T GO BACK TO THE FADED PHOTOGRAPHS, BECAUSE SOMETHINGS WERE NEVER MEANT TO LAST.....!! so, believe in god and never lament, because god is the only one in supreme power to make the best plans for everyone...!!!

9. i don't believe that homosexuality should be allowed or practised by anyone...!! because if god wanted homosexuality to be normal and prevalent on earth...he would have made "adam and tom" instead of "adam and eve"....!!! so Cmo'n guys and girls...be normal just the way god wanted us to be ;-)

10. I love and simply adore my family and FFFs [fully faaltu friends] who have stood by me in my most difficult times and my hour of need....!!! they have made me realise that 1 true friend is better than a thosuand relatives and acquaintances...!!!

11. i am sarcastic and have a smartass attitude..... this is a ntural defense against drama, deceit, bullshit and stupidity....and i don't give a f*ck if anyone with mentioned traits feels offended...!!!

12. according to me, women are like LIQUID OXYGEN..... the oxygen wouldn't let you die and would be your life support....and the liquid won't let you breathe and live ...!! ;-)
but, take it or leave it, its a fact that we men won't be able o survive without women...!! so try to enjoy the flowery bed with all the little thorns ;-)

13. i never part with my dreams and fight to keep them alive till the end, because i think if they are given up upon so easily, you may still exist, but you cease to leave....!!!
my funda is---
LIVE WITH NO REGRETS AND GIVE IT YOUR BEST... जियो तो ऐसे जियो की कोई काश ना रह जाए

14. I NEVER EVER GO TO BED ANGRY.....I STAY UP AND PLOT MY REVENGE... ;-)
i neither forget, nor i ever forgive...!!! i never forget my past, but i don't keep sticking to it also...!!

15. i live in that solitude which is painful in the youth, but is delicious and soothing in the years of maturity.....

16. i love to admire and listen to people's opinion just as i would admire their dog---- i shouldn't be expected to tak it along with me... ;-)

17. I AM A LOVER, NOT A FIGHTER...... BUT I'LL FIGHT TILL THE END FOR WHAT I LOVE AND DREAM.....

ciao.....peace.... see you all soon \^^/

I WILL SURVIVE....

जियो तो ऐसे जियो..., के ज़िन्दगी में कोई "काश" ना रह जाए.....

I’m down on my knees but not to pray,
Just to cover my face and waste another day.
Reminiscing how I had failed before I even try,
Never make a perfect landing because too scared to even fly.

Living in a memory only get me nowhere,
Keep whining, ” I’d rather be anywhere but here”.
I’m not living just for the moment,
But I’ll try to make each of them count..
I’m here to present all that I got.

Cause now I’ve realized,
Mistakes are necessary,
the secret behind every success story.

Every blunders happened,
to be overcome and beaten.
Luck doesn’t come so obvious,
And every failure is precious.

I BELIEVE.....

I believe that the sun shines after the rain
I believe if you don't get hurt you'll never gain
I believe in not doing things the easy way
I believe that being selfish doesn’t pay

I believe in a second chance
I believe in a life long romance
I believe there is life after death
And standing up to a life of mess

I believe in love at first sight
I believe that revenge isn’t right
I believe that first impressions last
And there is nothing better then a good laugh

I believe that dreams do come true
I believe there's destiny for me and you
I believe that good things come to those who wait
I believe love never arrives too late

I believe something good comes from something bad
I believe that for tears of happiness there are tears of sad
I believe everyone has a guardian angel
And the good you do will be rewarded well

I believe sometimes there is no explanation
I believe money can't buy people's affection
I believe you don't know what you've got until it's gone
I believe a new day arrives with every dawn

I believe a smile can be contagious
I believe in being very outrageous
I believe in living with no regrets
I believe that life is as good as it gets

I believe that God watches over us
I believe the little things are worth the fuss
I believe you have each friend for a reason
I believe you will get punished for treason

I believe that what comes first is family
I believe we should all live in harmony
I believe in making the most of a beautiful day
And it's not the end until everything's okay

I believe absence makes the heart grow fonder
I believe you will lose if you sit and wonder
I believe every experience teaches you a lesson
And nothing cures better then a drinking session

I believe everyone has one true love
I believe sometimes we need a little shove
I believe the whole world is a stage
I believe we only get better with age

I believe that to learn you have to live
I believe that to love someone you have to give
I believe one moment can change your life
And there's still help when you’re in strife

I believe everyone has one true friend
I believe love helps a broken heart mend
I believe in the power of a song
And things will change before too long

I believe living is the best experience
I believe in not laughing at other people’s expense
I believe it’s hard to watch a lover leave
And when they’re gone all you can do is breath

I believe to always look on the bright side
I believe that life is just one big ride
I believe when I die people will grieve
But it’s ok because I believe

YOU THINK YOU KNOW ME?? ;-) well check this out first..

...im a die hard romantic...and i love to dream, think and i prefer to be alone to write and jot down my thoughts..!!

i am least bothered about flattery and flirting...... so gals who wanna do fraaannnddship with me just please back off..!! i don't wanna be rude to woman so DON'T BOTHER...

i CAN'T take criticism…well i'm really short tempered!!!. ...
..im fussy abt almost everythin
and i like bein rude to people.... hahahha

i love being an INDIAN and hate people who say 1 religion/faith is better than other.!! .. please all such communal suckers can go and FU@# themselves... please don't bother us, we have better things to do...!!
i lurrrrrvv throwin attitude for no reason whatsoever..!!

i hate parties and crowds becoz i find it crowded by fake suckers who can be so nice to u even when they are bitching about u at ur back and from the inside...

im not hot lukin or sexy or a material that girls drool over...!!!
am juzz a normal guy next door and i just can't pretend to be something i am not...!!
SO TAKE ME AS I AM... OR JUZZ LEAVE ME ALONE..!!

..i cant stand the nasal king of our country mr. Himesh Reshammyia......i hate jazzy-b's or watever they'r called of punjabi singing who can't think of punjab being more than daaru. chicks and bandooks... n im ready to kick u in da wrong place if u play any of his songs wen u r around me.

..i dont like people who claim to be the best..
...i hate nerds,geeks,perverts, FLIRTS and people who take commitment, honesty and relationships for granted..!! if u are 1 then plzz back off or u can really get hurt... thanx :)

..i don’t like earthworms and lizards... hehehe
…I hate people with oil in their hair( especially wen they r standin right under my nose)
I hate wannabes…I don’t like the saduu and khadoos people!!!....…

im very self centered.....im very fluent in sarcasm...

i cant imagine a life without my FFF’s…dat stands for (faltoooo friends forever)…namely punnu, sid, saleem, kunal, vicku, yadu, daman, yogi, blessu, chandu... harry, suggu, rasna, kim, poonam, shweta, nidhi, sweeky, ruchi, amrit, simi,.... ummm bass :)

I love travelling alone on long looonnngg drives…
im a dreamer…
I love reading…

I love to flaunt…
but, I hate to fake!!..

..i luvvvv havin sweet lime soda
...i hate eatin pizza and masala dosa using a fork n knife...
i hate to know that "" life can be such a bitch at times=
i loveeee long words dat make no sense eg, preposterously!!

..i lov melodrama
...i hate blackmail...
..i hate guys who start singin as soon as a chick passes them by..

..i hate to be silent
..i luvvv my life (bein over optimistic helps!!)

these r da primary detailzz rest is 4 u to figure out..so ciao.peace… \,,/

I LOVE YOU... BECAUSE...

I love you...
It's not a weight you must carry around..!!
I love you...
It's not a box that holds you in..!!
I love you...
It's not a standard you have to bear..!!
I love you...
It's not a sacrifice I make...!!
I love you...
It's not a pedestal you are frozen upon..!!
I love you...
It's not an expectation of perfection...!!
I love you...
It's not my life's whole purpose (or your's)..!!

I love you...
It's not to make you change..!!
I love you...
It's not even to make you love me..!!
I LOVE YOU...
IT'S AS PURE AND SIMPLE AS THAT.!!!

there's nothing more a miracle than love

"Love works in miracles every day: such as weakening the strong, and stretching the weak; making fools of the wise, and wise men of fools; favouring the passions, destroying reason, and in a word, turning everything topsy-turvy."

if we believe in the miracles of love, then nothing is impossible..!!

i have never believed that love is blind.... according to me, true love is never blind..!! i would say that true love has an eye that makes us the possibilities that we/anyone could never ever see with the naked eyes of worldly wisdom and practicality,...!!

THE MOVIE THAT HAS AFFECTED ME THE MOST...!! and why..???

The world ain't all sunshine and rainbows. It's a very mean and nasty place. and I don´t care how tough you are, it will beat you to your knees and keep you there permanently, if you let it. You, me or nobody, is gonna hit as hard as life. But ain't about how hard you hit. It's about how hard you can get hit, and keep moving forward. how much you can take, and keep moving forward. That´s how winning is done. Now, if you know what you worth, go out and get what you worth. But you gotta be willing to take the hits. And not pointing fingers saying: You ain´t what you wanna be because of him or her or anybody. Cowards do that and that ain´t you! You´re better than that!"

well this is 1 dialogue that has inspired me the most... ever in my life..!! i have been a big-big "ROCKY BALBOA" FAN all through..!! it was around 10 years back when i first saw a rocky movie..!! and since then i have watched all the 6 parts atleast 20-25 times each...!! and everytime i have seen this movie it has inspired me no-end..!! i have not just watched it because i like and admire boxing as a sport.... its because it has always made me learn some important new lessons about life...!!

1. it has made me realize the fact that no matter what your dreams are....if u keep chasing them, then one day you will be at the place where you belong and where you have wanted to see yourself all through your life..!!

2. it has made me realize the power of the WILL TO SURVIVE..!! and this realization has seen me through most of the difficult situations of my life...wheather it was coping up and conquering depression...or if it was coming out of personal debacles...or even when i was down professionally... it made me realize NEVER EVER TO SAY "DIE" and now this attitude has just seeped into my soul and i don't know any other way to live..!!

3. the biggest gift that i think that this inspirational movie has given me is that it has made me realise that OUR CHOICES, AND NOT CHANCES...DETERMINE OUR DESTINY..!!
it has made me strong enough to take the blame for my mistakes or for my wrong choices..!! it has made me sane and wise enough now..not to blame my misfortunes or difficult situations that i have faced, on circumstances or on other people..!! i faced those tough times because i made some wrong choices, because i made some wrong decisions and because i let those situations affect me and my psyche..!! "but....it's not gonna happen anymore"--- this is what i decided 3 years back....and since then.... there has been no looking back..!!

4. it made me realize the fact that---
*a man should be strong enough to accept his mistakes, intelligent enough to learn from them, and wise enough to benefit from them..!!!!
*be more concerned about your character than reputation....character is what u really are, and reputation is merely what others think of you..!!!

and this is what has made me out to be a better human being every new moment....to keep moving forward even when the odds are stacked high against me.....to gracefully take the blames for my mistakes and learn from them so that i strive to be a stronger, better and humane human-being with every passing day..!!

it has made me strong enough to be MYSELF.... to choose my own ways depending upon what's morally and practically right.... and not just following a road because that's the way the whole world is going without paying a single thought to the destination...!!

that's why now i proudly say about me---
۩۞۩ THERE'S THE HIGHWAY, AND THEN,, THERE'S ----- "MY WAY" ۩۞۩

AM JUST SO DEEPLY IN LOVE WITH YOU...!!!

am just so deeply in love with you that i just can't stop thinking about you..!! every second, every moment of my life and every act of my life is just for you..!! when am studying am just thinking of the ways my hard-work would make life easy and great for us, when am shopping for clothes i just think of buying the clothes that you would admire, when am lying in my bed am just thinking of the times we have been together and i cherish them, when we are not able to be in contact am just thinking of the ways you must be giggling and the things you must be doing..... people may say that i have gone nuts..!! but, the fact is that am so truly, madly, deeply in love with you that you have become my inspiration, my motivation, my strength and a reason for me to live and achieve my dreams for me and for us..!!

sometimes when i come to know of some other guy trying to woo you, i feel agitated and irrittable..!! and that's not because i have a fear of losing you and it's not even that i suspect your maturity to handle such situations ...!! i know you won't ever walk away because you love me like no-one can and because i know that no-one would be able to love you the way i can..!! but i feel agitated at those people because i know what their intentions are...!!

i like it and would encourage you to be friends with a guy who likes you, when some pure hearted guy would fall for you, because i trust their intentions and their purity and i trust your levels of maturity and that you can handle every situation with grace and intelligence..!!!

but i just can't be comfortable with the fact that wrong people are coming in contact with you, i mean people who treat love as a joke and fall in it just for the heck of it or who can cheat someone in love just to impress someone else..!! and this is not i am jealous or possessive, it's just becuase i don't want any harm to your feeling, reputation, or to you becuase of such stupid people and their wrong/stupid acts even by a slight, slim chance..!!

i can't leave you, your smiles, your reputation and your feelings to chance..!!

AM REALLY IN LOVE WITH YOU...!! AM ALWAYS GOING TO BE WITH YOU...!! AND AM GOING TO BE ONLY YOURS FOR ALL THE REST OF MY LIFE...!! YOU MAKE MY LIFE PRECIOUS AND MEANINGFULL..!!!!

BOUNCING BACK...!!

i have been knocked out so many times,

i have been beaten, i have been betrayed,
i have lost, and i have even been down,
but hey, sorry life, just cut it out...
because i can be down but never out,
i have a knack of bouncing back...!!

life has tried hard, it has played it hard,
but, maybe i just proved to be made of a harder soul...
because god had always some better plans,
and i'll just never give up..!!

hey friend, so please play it hard...
play it hard and fair..!!
because there is no game that i won't play harder than you,
and that's why there's no game i won't win at,
because there's nothing that can keep me down.... for long,
because you can never count me out,
i have just a knack of bouncing back...!!!

so, cmo'n bring it on,
i like this challenge...
i like to weather the storms,
i like to face the rough,
because that's what makes me stronger and strong...,
i'll give it in your face, i'll call your bluff,
every single time...,
till you know that i won't ever give up..!!!

and i won't give in, till i die trying...
and it ain't some invisible strength,
it ain't just my luck,
it's not that i don't know any fears,
it's just that i grow resistant to fears...
it's just that i don't ever give up,
because i have that knack of BOUNCING BACK...!!!

FOOD FOR SOUL....

I think alone in dreams,
Quite hoplessly it seems,
That the world could live as one,
Beneath the glowing sun.

One world, one people, living free,
Secure, in one true destiny.
I look into the starry skies,
As heartfelt tears fall from my eyes,
When I think of all the hurt thats done
Beneath Gods' warm and glowing sun.

I yearn for something pure and sweet,
Some special food for my soul,
A food to take the pain away,
And bring me to a bright new day.

Can wisdom be so hard to find?
A happiness, for all mankind,
Give me hope in fading light,
To see me through this tearful night,
As I think alone in dreams.

U'll NEVER DISCOVER THE REAL ME..!!

I am boy who's grown tired from lies ,
a man who's had enough of having responsibility....
dumped over his head,
responsibility of other people's and my own wrong doings,
responsibility of an ever-smiling boy,
and expectations of being able to take it all..!!!

To other people
I might just seem like a cheerful boy,
a playful happy-go-lucky guy,
with no worries and scantly affected by fakeness and lies,
sorrounding us all in this big bad world..!!

But its most of the times ...
only a matter of a good disguise ..!!!
A mask that I use to protect myself ,
to hide my fears ,
to hide my pains and tears,
I've used it so much ,
that I actually believe the lie ...
the lie that I've made ,
a lie that I've created as a shield ..!!!

I've used this mask so much,
that now I think ,
it became my own skin ...!!
if you come to think of it,
I'm just a normal person,
like everyone else ,
struggling with life..!!

and the only way to survive ,
is to live a lie ,..!!!
just for a little while,
until people find my true identity,
my true persona, my true self...
and THE REAL ME ..!!!

TOWARDS ETERNITY....!!!! life and its answers..!!!!

why is it that,
no matter how much you try to hide something,
still your eyes can't lie..!!!
why is it that,
you can tell from someone's eyes,
when he's fooling around..!!!

why is it that,
they say there is love at first sight..!!!
why is it that,
u feel heavens,
when you look into your beloved's eyes..!!!

why is it that,
eyes tell everything,
that a person is trying to hide..!!!
why is it that,
a person is deep within,
only the things that he fiercely hides..!!!

why is it that,
nothing can ever equal,
the warmth of a mother's lap and lullaby,
the care in a beloved's love,
the belief and protection in a father's hug..!!!
the love in a sibling's fight,
the need and want in a child's eyes,
and the care and concern behind a friend's anger and advice..!!!

why is it that,
best lessons are learnt through pains,
most lovable relations start through fights and strains,
and why we have to lose before we gain..!!!

why is it that,
no one can see our tears when we cry,
but everyone needs us when we want to laugh and smile..!!!
why is it that,
pains given to us by closest people hurt the most,
and in the end we have to walk all alone along the life's coast..!!!

LIFE KEEPS ON CHANGING THE QUESTIONS,
but one thing that i have come to understand for sure is,
that in life,
OUR CHOICES, AND NOT THE CHANCES, DETERMINE OUR DESTINY,
that ambition without determination has no destination,
that life is meant to be lived, to be enjoyed,
to smile and to spread smiles...
even in most difficult of situations..!!!
because in this world,
there is no market for your sorrows..!!!

so treasure the biggest gift by god,
and that is you and LIFE itself..!!!